tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post4146351153895462304..comments2024-03-12T09:47:58.376+02:00Comments on ChampagneHeathen: Hogging The SpotlightChampagne Heathenhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09540128789208726965noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-12388515412137105372007-07-03T18:18:00.000+02:002007-07-03T18:18:00.000+02:00Okay, I will comply, Champs.Okay, I will comply, Champs.Mr Memetichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01646425850270386011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-46811906057129100092007-07-03T15:46:00.000+02:002007-07-03T15:46:00.000+02:00Thanks Jam & Dave!!Robertaloni! Smooches!Anton - I...Thanks Jam & Dave!!<BR/><BR/>Robertaloni! Smooches!<BR/><BR/>Anton - I am putting you on a word diet on this blog. Or is that a word rationing. <BR/><BR/>You have to be very very careful of your thinking self controlling your emotional self. It can have negative consequences. You need a balance. I am also not certain that "emotional" is linked to "animal".Champagne Heathenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540128789208726965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-17862957295028495692007-07-02T21:52:00.000+02:002007-07-02T21:52:00.000+02:00"Anton - Thanks for this comment. I really liked i...<I>"Anton - Thanks for this comment. I really liked it.<BR/><BR/>Chews - I don't really see how this says I am a player. This says that I was incredibly hurt by this situation. And was very much alone in that hurt.<BR/><BR/>I'm not asking for advice or judgement. It is not a situation that anyone can get on their moral high horse about. Until they are at the end of their life and have faced many such situations."</I><BR/><BR/><BR/>No need for thanks. It is, obviously, appreciated, but since I started working again about 4 months ago (a job involving writing, sometimes as part of the job description, sometimes as a matter of survival), I have been rediscovering my passion for writing.<BR/><BR/>Anyway, kudos where kudos due is cool with me! :)<BR/><BR/>Don't know chewthecud - well, no more that s/he is a regular, so chew, this is a mere formality:<BR/><BR/>I mean no offense, I am, however weighing in on Champs' side. I do not know much about her, except from her writing, but based on what I know, I think my opinion (though possibly wrong) is fair comment:<BR/><BR/>Sometimes people, due to pattern of previous romantic entanglements, seem like players. Is this really true?<BR/><BR/>This Heathen seems to have done something not many (I don't know, 20 - 30% of people?) can do.<BR/><BR/>Master their emotions, control their animal side, choose the Scot Peck way... oops, I mean road less travelled. Scotty was just organising an older wisdom, one I am, admittedly, still trying to deal with...<BR/><BR/>This is the control of your intellectual self over your emotional self.<BR/><BR/>The animal self...<BR/><BR/>Although personally, I do it for my own reasons. This is so they finally let me into Ninja School.<BR/><BR/>(I wanna do the Gun Kata so so sooo very badly!)<BR/><BR/>Sigh. But they say my EQ Score is still too low.<BR/><BR/>And all I wanna do is be a Ninja...Mr Memetichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01646425850270386011noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-68189814484791582612007-07-02T19:39:00.000+02:002007-07-02T19:39:00.000+02:00So now you want me to be a Frenchman on the beach ...So now you want me to be a Frenchman on the beach at Nice again?<BR/><BR/>Just say the word and I will. <BR/><BR/>I dunno, these remote controlled relationships have their on/off moments and today I am so on and where are you? Not here. You are in Jo'burg. <BR/><BR/>Jeeez....RBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03115530639415942479noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-37141772345180869342007-07-02T14:10:00.000+02:002007-07-02T14:10:00.000+02:00Cool Post babe! Awesome to hear... made me think. ...Cool Post babe! Awesome to hear... made me think. ThanksDaveRichhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12253985803440492071noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-2546180465009173382007-07-02T11:04:00.000+02:002007-07-02T11:04:00.000+02:00Love this post - you sound positive, clear and upb...Love this post - you sound positive, clear and upbeat!<BR/>And it's true that you should be able to demand to be the centre of the universe for one person...!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-84639420315114718122007-07-02T09:51:00.000+02:002007-07-02T09:51:00.000+02:00Anton - Thanks for this comment. I really liked it...Anton - Thanks for this comment. I really liked it. <BR/><BR/>Chews - I don't really see how this says I am a player. This says that I was incredibly hurt by this situation. And was very much alone in that hurt. <BR/><BR/>I'm not asking for advice or judgement. It is not a situation that anyone can get on their moral high horse about. Until they are at the end of their life and have faced many such situations.Champagne Heathenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09540128789208726965noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-28575353666287392142007-07-02T09:30:00.000+02:002007-07-02T09:30:00.000+02:00So you were a playa Champs? I can't seem to pictur...So you were a playa Champs? I can't seem to picture you taking a back seat to anybody babe. <BR/><BR/>No advice or judgment coming from my corner today hun. All that can be said about this is highly predictable ;)ChewTheCudhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02834275064275668599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28321828.post-79846981941002316012007-07-01T22:04:00.000+02:002007-07-01T22:04:00.000+02:00This is, I think, a good attitude to have...You ca...This is, I think, a good attitude to have...<BR/><BR/>You can't possibly play second fiddle in a perverse <I>menage a trois</I>. And you will if you pursue it.<BR/><BR/>Normally both of the "other" women (or men) end up in the same position, with one just winning - barely. They win with the grand prze of life-long insecurities, etc.<BR/><BR/>No, I am rarely conservative in my philosophies, but relationships are one area I fully believe should be a covenant between two individuals (what sex each is, is irrelevent to me, provided they are both adults). And if they decide to break this convenant, so be it.<BR/><BR/>But playing the field while involved is merely the relationship version of, well, going to the candy store and trying out different sweets while your sweetheart waits for you outside.<BR/><BR/>No. <I>Not</I> cool.Mr Memetichttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01646425850270386011noreply@blogger.com