"So did you shag him?"
"You know I don't discuss that"
"It's fine. I'll get it out of him when he gets here just now"
"That's cool. He can tell you what did or didn't happen"
"So how are you doing, lady? What's news and all of that? Did you get that project done?"
"Ohforgodsake. Did you shag him?????!!"
The thing is...personally... I have NO desire to think about my mates nakedly romping about each other, their beds, houses & Edgars Change Rooms. Yeah yeah, I love you all but, unless of course you are inviting me in on the future action, your sex lives less than interest me. Eugh. Your wobbly bits colliding with his or her bits in some bumper-lumper-athon. No thank you.
Well... Unless it was some ridicuously hilarious story about how your guy's cat "caught a grope" while you & your guy were lovingly getting it on.
Oh wait... That wasn't you...